What are you so angry about?" my mother had asked me the last time I had gone home to visit. Why aren't you more angry, I had wanted to ask her. But I couldn't talk to my mother that way. She understood that I did not want to live her life, to work as a waitress, until my toes curled in and my feet hurt all the time, to marry a man who would beat my children and treat me as if I had no right to object to object to anything he chose to do. She didn't want that life for me either. She wanted me happy and successful, to live unafraid among people who loved me, and to do things she had never been able to do and tell her all about them. So I told her, about the shelter, the magazine, readings and discussion groups. I told her about trying to write stories, though I hesitated to send send her all that I wrote. And there were far too many times when I would sit down to write my mama and stare at the paper unable to puzzle out how to explain how urgent and unimportant it was to change how women's lives were shaped. Not only that we should be paid equal money for equally difficult work, but that we should genuinely begin to think about what word we might choose to undertake, how we might live our daily lives. Why should I have to marry at all? Or explain myself if I chose to love a woman? Why could I not spend my hours writing stories instead of raising children or keeping house or working some deadly boring job just to cover the rent of an apartments where I was not safe anyway. Dorothy Allison
About This Quote

The quote above by Maya Angelou is an example of a self-improvement quote. This quote teaches that we should not always feel angry when things aren't the way we want them to be. Instead, we should think about how we can improve ourselves in order to make the world a better place. As this quote says, anger can be destructive and make it difficult for us to see the potential good in the world.

For example, when someone commits a crime like murder or rape, many people are angry when they hear about it. However, if the person in question feels anger towards society in general, then they may commit more crimes in order to prove their point. The problems with anger are numerous and include all of the consequences that come with anger such as depression, stress and even death.

Source: The Womens Room

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  1. Things come apart so easily when they have been held together with lies.
  2. Write to your fear.
  3. Why write stories? To join the conversation.
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